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4 Replies Last post: Feb 9, 2008 5:04 PM by Evildave  
Click to view KellieCM's profile Old Hand 3,410 posts since
Jun 27, 2007
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Dec 26, 2007 1:08 PM

Online Dating War Stories

PC World is working on an article about online dating, and we're looking for your horror stories! Share your worst and funniest experiences with online dating, and your story may be included in an upcoming PC World article.


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Click to view TechyGuy's profile Enthusiast 701 posts since
Oct 6, 2007
1. Dec 29, 2007 5:00 PM in response to: KellieCM
Re: Online Dating War Stories
Well, let's see here . . .

I had a relative who, once upon a time, registered on eHarmony. He filled out all of the forms, and told as much about himself that he possibly could before he reviewed his "matches". So, a day or two later, he logs on to eHarmony too take looksie at his reccomended "matches"; where he finds this one woman who "matched" his criteria exactly. After he messages her,and chats with her (online), they decide to meet for the first time at a local restaraunt. So, this relative of mine is really excited . . . until his "date" doesn't show up at first. "Okay", says he, "Maybe she's just running late". So, there he waits. And waits. After a few hours, still no sign of his "date". Feeling like he had been ripped off, he drives back home, and logs on to eHarmony; and notices that he has a new message from his theoretical "match". The subject reads "n00b". Furiously, he opens the rest of the message, only to find that someone had completely scammed him . . . and this was after about a month or two of this relative of mine doing anything to find new love, along with paid services via his online dating site.

The lesson? Be cautious when using these type of sites, and make sure that the people you connect with via these sites are genuine. I'm sure that my uncle(that certain relative I was speaking of) learned this.


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2. Jan 24, 2008 8:51 AM in response to: KellieCM
Re: Online Dating War Stories
OK well I really shouldn't do this as I have no bad experiences with online dating, 2 years of it, just no one that "clicked" and then I met someone online in another country, went there, expecting the worst, got married 6 weeks later and never went home, it's been 10 months now and she treats me like a husband wants to be treated, in hind sight I figured out why dating sites at home have so many horror stories, desperate people wanting to meet someone that won't take advantage of them, lots of caution on both sides, maybe too much, but for good reason, I traveled 12,000 miles, (you don't do that for the hell of it), to meet some one who wanted a LTR just as much as I did, key word WANTED, it's the WANTED on both parts that makes the big difference in a real happy ending-sorry guys it's the truth


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3. Feb 6, 2008 11:45 PM in response to: KellieCM
Re: Online Dating War Stories
I don't have any horror stories. I met my husband online in a jla rpg board and am very happy. Apparently though one of my relatives back when the internet was first getting popular. (early/mid90s') met a guy online, he came to her house to like "move in" took all her stuff, possibly cleared out her bank account as well and took off.


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Click to view Evildave's profile Old Hand 1,309 posts since
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4. Feb 9, 2008 5:04 PM in response to: AuroraDizon
Re: Online Dating War Stories

A few years ago I tried Match.com. I gave up after not very long at all. Seems the only women online were spambots trying to fish my email address.

People appear to have written software to make accounts to slap random pictures of hot chicks on and post up a message to every male profile.

There are a couple of easy ways to spot 'em.

1. They're ALWAYS from a different state.

2. Copy/paste likely snippets from the message into google and see if there's a hit. You'll usually see the message verbatim there.

3. They almost never match your profile.

Anyway, with the hundredth or so spam-bot message, I got the REAL message and killed the account.

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